A statesman is described as a skilled, experienced and respected political leader or figure, as someone who can sit down with his biggest political rival, put aside feelings and resolve issues. A statesman is a person who can compromise — not because he is weak, but because he recognizes that doing what is best for his constituents sometimes involves working with the opposition.

Where did all the statesmen and stateswomen go? It seems that so many from the top of the political food chain on down have succumbed to animosity and the “you’re with me or against me” mentality.

It’s clear that for many politicians, there’s no respect involved in the act of politicking anymore. Lack of respect for the other side and its ideas seems to be the norm. But that lack of respect can sometimes translate into another issue.

Slander is defined as the action or crime of making a false spoken statement damaging to a person’s reputation.

Sometimes discussion gets heated in political meetings. Sometimes elected officials feel passionate about an issue and that passion comes across in the words they speak. But when one politician accuses another politician, or staff of said government institution, of criminal behavior, of conspiracy and more, especially in front of an audience and when the meeting is digitally recorded to be aired on the local public access channel, perhaps that passion should be restrained. At least, restrained enough to not edge into the litigious.

A politician is the voice of his constituents, yes, but when that voice is used to insult and vilify others in a public meeting, perhaps fellow politicians also should try a little harder to make their own voices heard over the racket.

From the highest office in the land to the local board of commissioners, a level of civility is expected.

Where have all the statesmen gone?